Kink refers to those unconventional sexual desires, fantasies or practices that even a bit risque. According to our recent survey, more than half of the 2000 people surveyed have considered deviating from their regular sex routine and trying something new. It might be overwhelming and frightening if you are new to the kinky world. Take it easy. Let us BondageLove help you to explore if you are not sure where to start.
Before scrolling down to check out our five easy ways to experiment with kink, we must emphasize again, safety and communication are always the most important toward any kinky explorations. Open communication before, during, and after sex allows you to set boundaries, choose safe words, discover more mutually and help you reach even greater heights next time.
Investing in a blindfold might be one of the easiest and cheapest ways to get started. Once deprived visual senses, your lover will revel in the allure of darkness and the enhancement of other senses comes along with. Every time you touch their bodies, the blindfolds have a magic power to transform mild murmurs into squeals of ecstasy.
Once your lover is blissfully in-the-dark, they won’t know where the next hit comes from. The unknown is the most exciting. Further excite your lover’s eager senses with caresses, kisses and other interesting tools.
Shut Sub Up
As the name suggests, a ball gag is a toy used to keep your lover’s mouth open and prevent speaking. It adds erotic pleasure to your provocative bondage adventure and enhances intimate fun.
When wearing a ball gag, it muffles sub’s voice and allows the wearer fully surrendering to the games. The deprivation of speech intensifies the sub’s feeling of helplessness as well as Dom’s feeling of control. Some gags will cause drooling adding a strong sense of humiliation. They enhance the intensity without invoking pain. All the reasons above make ball gags so popular.
A tickle fight could take place after sensation deprivation or rope bondage. Once your lovers turned on, their body will respond to the slightest touch. A tickle or strike on the butt, upper thighs, or other erogenous zones stimulates the skin’s nerve receptors and enhance thrilling anticipation and sensory delight.
Even your most tickle-resilient sub will soon be squirming. A tickle fight will leave your lover with flushed cheeks and a craving for more sensory excitement.
Ice And Heat
During your foreplay, rubbing your partner down with something icy or hot to alter the way you’re touching their body. The extreme temperature will be super arousing and put their other sense on edge.
The most common substances used in ice play are ice cubes or frozen fruit that everyone has in their refrigerators. Goosebumps could be so sexy right now. If you prefer the heat thing, you can try wax or oil. Pay attention to your safety, please.
This is one kinky idea for advanced players to have other people involved in sexy times. The cuckolding is usually a masculine person forced to watch his partner have sex with someone else. The cuck often gets off on these scenes.
However, it is a form of erotic humiliation and not everyone accepts. It also involves jealousy, fear, insecurity, and other negative elements. If you’re going to experience cuckolding, make sure to think about these potentially negative emotions and discuss it first before diving in.
If you try something and discover it’s not for you, no big deal. We have other interesting things introduce to you – Top 6 BDSM Kinks
But, if you desire to learn more, give yourself the chance to explore.